Tips on Nurturing Love and Relationships

* Focus on feelings, not on judgments or issues because feeling are neither right nor wrong.

* Weekly dates are a must. Find time to be together.

* Be affectionate and affirm each other daily. hold hands, embrace, kiss often, flirt with each other.

* If married, have your own home, no matter how small. No parents, no in-laws, no siblings.

* Never involve other people ( especially friends and family) in a quarrel. Instead, go see a counselor or someone who can "referee" for the two of you.

* Have a shared spirituality.

* Be each other's best friend.

Loving Someone
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many Beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.

The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being. to let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own HAPPINESS without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all fears, bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness pare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may have found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship, or the feelings he might have for u is just too far from how you love him. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to be bitter on love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.

Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

"When you lose someone... and you think you were the one who loved most, between the two of you... he lost more. For someday you can love someone the way that you loved him...But he will never be loved again the way that you did"


Breakup Letter
This would probably the last letter you will read from me. Its not because I will stop loving you.
Doing so would be a sin, but just that I think its enough that you already know the feelings I have
inside for you. I dont really care what other people might say because what matters most at this
time is to show my sincerity in all the things I do for you..

Knowing that you has made me everything meaningful to me giving me more reasons to love my
life and treasure all the things that I already have. Lets just say that I once found very hard to face.
You have become my inspiration in everything I do in the hope of becoming the perfect one for
you. But I guess what I am will never be enough for you

It has been very nice being with you. Time just slipped away when we talked about the things that
never really mattered to me before until you made me aware of them that was when I discovered
that may things are indeed interesting. Well maybe its not the topic itself but the way you
expressed yourself in the voice that lingers in my ears and words that echo eternally in my mind.
All those things have made me happy more that anything. I never expected that after then would
come great sorrow when I realized that they were never meant for me

Loving you has made a mixed feeling of joy and sorrow. I cant really explain the feeling and I
dont want to please dont think that I regret having known you because you are the most
memorable gift that fate has blessed my life with. You still are and always be

I guess when youre gone, ill stop living. Without you life will hold no more meaning. Even so I
know time will heal the wounds created but the scars will always be there to remind me that I
have loved and lost someone as good as you.

One thing for sure is that I will always be here loving you.


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